Settling In!

We've been home with our precious new children for two weeks.  Anyone who is close to the adoption realm knows that the range of the honeymoon period varies greatly from child to child.  We had a wonderful few days visiting with the kids back in January - but definitely saw glimpses of behaviors that showed that the kids were processing all that was happening to their little lives.  When we arrived to pick up the kids and begin life as a family - - the kids started right in!  It was a hard first day or two as they were testing boundaries and learning if they could trust us with their emotions.  They were doing their best to cope with all the goodbyes that they had to give and the preparation for all the hellos to new family that would be coming in the days to come.  They did great on the drive home and were anxious to meet all their new siblings.  We were blessed to be able to bring them home during Spring Break week so the kids were all home and able to spend some precious time getting to know each other.  There were healthy emotions from all of the children as they got used to the idea of each other.

The first week was full of lots of fun and relaxation as we provided unstructured time to just be together.  They did well processing through a high stimulating holiday right off the bat - - anyone who has been there done that knows how huge of a success that is!  They did well out and about for short amounts of time and have even done okay with others in our home for limited amounts of time.  Our transition time and cocooning has looked very different this time around.  Last time we adopted, the boys were in pure CULTURE shock!  Everything was brand new and overwhelming - from the smells they smelled to the food they ate to the language they heard and spoke.  This time there is new and change but the sense of feeling overwhelmed is much different and seems easier.  When there are frustrations or confusions or emotions - the kids have the language and the words to talk it through which makes life a whole lot easier as we help them process and heal.

This last week school started back up which meant early mornings and routines.  It meant added stress and anxiety from everyone.  Josh and I have been blessed with the opportunity to be home for a few weeks during this initial transition period and boy am I thankful.  It takes a lot of energy - physically and emotionally - to blend relationships and build trust.  There has been intentional time spent with each kid in the house at different stages throughout the day as they seek affirmation and assurance that they are loved and as they process through the change.

As we get to know what our new normal is and begin to settle in - it never ceases to amaze me that God orchestrates everything so perfectly.  I find myself looking around my living room when we are all crashed out, draped under blankets, cuddled up to each other - and my heart feels full!!  A smile comes to my face and my heart sighs deeply as I think about God bringing all of these precious children into my care in all of their own unique ways.  It brings joy as I look at all the shades of skin and the rainbow of hair colors - it makes me smile knowing that this is what God's love is and I get a glimpse of it every single day!

So - moving forward we are going to continue to love on the kids that God has given us!  We are going to continue to trust Him to help us build trust and love into our children's hearts and show them what FAMILY looks like.  We are thankful for the prayers and encouragement of those of you who have stood by our side and stepped in to be our village!  We are thankful for those that have brought meals or sent bags of clothes!  We are thankful for those that have asked our kids about their new siblings and gave them a little hug as they shared their hearts.  We are thankful for amazing coworkers/friends who have stepped in to make sure things ran smoothly while we are taking time to be home with our family.  Mostly we are thankful for the chance to be right here-right now as God works in and through our family!

Keep praying for us as we know everyone will continue to cope and process.  Keep praying for us as we continue to trust God with our hearts and our family - on the good days and the hard days that are sure to come.

Coming HOME!!!

It has been just over five months since we first saw their faces....and two and a half months since we found out they would be ours!  After many tears and prayers and filling out and redoing paperwork....we got word today that our paperwork is complete and we have approval to bring the newest Krohn kids HOME!!!

There have been highs and lows on this roller coaster called adoption - - and we don't even have them home yet.  There were times where things looked like they were just wrapping up - to turn around and seem like it was all falling apart.  Through it all, this last week I hit a place of peace and surrender.  I knew that my worry and attempts to control everything were doing no good.  I fully surrendered our process and our family and our future to God and knew that however He worked it out that I would trust Him and know it was best.  I have started each morning praying that I would be here and present and that I would be a blessing to the children that were placed in my path - - the children in my home and the children in my classroom.  The weeks prior to that I was stressed and didn't want to be at work - - it made me mad that I was teaching the plans that I had made for a sub to teach to my class while I was supposed to be on leave.  The delays made me stressed and worried that it would all fall apart - - and at times it seemed like it would. But this week God met me - - there in the cry of my heart to trust Him - He met me - - in the songs he would stick in my head in the mornings about peace and joy - He met me.  I've had more peace this week than I have had in months and I'm so thankful that He brought me to this place.  I know many of you were praying for us and I was definitely feeling it this week.

We are all excited to finally be bringing the kids home.  We both have work obligations that we need to see to next week, so we will be traveling to get the kids NEXT weekend.  It falls at the start of Spring Break for all the kids so it will be a nice time to all be together for the week before school picks back up.  Please know that with all of the excitement there will be a lot of transition happening and we envy your continued prayers.  Our children have been blessed to have some consistency in their life while in foster care which is such a blessing - - but will make the transition to our home difficult as they will be grieving the relationships that they will be losing by coming into our home.  We will still be keeping in touch with some of those people and know that they will always have a place in their lives - - but it will not be the same and will be a hard transition for our new young ones. 

We are once again meshing and melding into a new family dynamic.  There will be seven little ones in our home getting used to each other and we will be working to find our new normal.  Please be patient with us - - we may hole up for a while - - we may decline coming to events - - we may not want people over to the house.  When we do make appearances out in public - please respect our space and decisions with our kids.  Please don't hug on them or offer them things without asking. We are working at having them bond and attach to us and it gets confusing and has added stress when out in public.  Please don't tell them how lucky they are to have us or how blessed we must be - - they have lost a lot in their little lives to be in the situation that they are joining our family and it is not to be taken lightly.  Please honor and respect the time that we feel we need to give to our kids - - but please DON'T DISAPPEAR!!  Please still pray for us - please text or message words of encouragement - please check in and see how we are doing - please offer to help out with the other kids in the house.  We love you all and appreciate the support and encouragement that you guys have shown our family as God has grown our family into what it has now become.  We definitely could not have done it without all of your prayers and support.

As excited as we are that the paperwork is finally done and we are finally getting to bring these precious kiddos home - - the real adventure is just beginning.  The next weeks and months will be hard.  There will be tears and hard times...but there will be joy and laughter too!  Through it all we will continue to lean on God and trust His plan for our family.  We will continue to give God the glory because without Him we would be nothing.

So......................

Ups and Downs

Anyone that has been very close at all to an adoption knows that it can be stressful and can come with highs and lows.  This week has been an emotional roller coaster!  Part of it is my fault - - now that I've met my kids and held them in my arms I want to bring them home SO BADLY!!!  Part of my stress and feelings of being overwhelmed is because I am not content in the wait.

Anyone that knows me very well knows that I do not do well when I do not have control.  God knew this about me and that is why He has had me wade through adoption paperwork on more than one occasion -- numerous amounts of paperwork that you are relying on OTHER people to complete.  Not only to complete but to complete correctly - - and in a timely manner - - and as if people's lives depend on it...because they DO!!!  People's lives depend on each little signature and each little form filled out when you are working on an adoption - - and to be the one who's life is affected and have no control!!!  Now you see where my worry and stress comes in - - I recognize that this is something I struggle with and have learned to turn it over to God.  Oddly enough though - my turning it over to God looks an awful lot like a toddler pleading and begging for a cookie at bedtime.  It starts with pretty pleases and an innocent angelic face - - then it turns into angry stamping and saying "I want" - - then at the most dire of times (like today) it turns in to full on sobs and pleading with God for some sort of direction.

Many of you have been praying over the last couple days for our paperwork.  The last three days have been full of ups and downs in the process.  Just when I felt down and out - something would shift and make things seem back on track - only to have something else that happened that seemed to derail us.  I got a call yesterday afternoon that stirred up some issues.  24 hours later when I got a call this afternoon from our case worker we still didn't know much - but best case scenario we were set back a week or two having to re-do some paperwork....worse case scenario we were starting OVER from square one (like new fingerprinting, homestudy, the works - - which would have taken months)!

I finally broke down and let the tears fall - - and once they started there wasn't an end in site anytime soon.  Hubby was at work - - kids were doing chores and looking at me weird out of the corner of their eye wondering what in the world was wrong with me.  I had to drive to a neighboring town (to pick up a library book that was left at our tax appointment - oh joy!) and was thankful for the quiet drive to clear my head and just let the tears fall as I prayed to God and tried to make sense of the possibility of not bringing the kids home for months!!  I couldn't wrap my mind around it and my heart was discouraged - - I sang to the christian radio some and cried some and pleaded with God a LOT.

As I pulled into my driveway an email dinged through on my phone - - it was my case worker and she had finally heard back from the person we needed to hear from to know how we needed to proceed......in a brief couple sentence email (that she sent to me after hours when she was already home but knew that I needed to know) all was right in the world and my tears (that had been going now for over an hour) were now tears of relief!  They need to simply resubmit the correct form - I'm hoping it only delays us a week or two!  This morning - - this is the delay that I DID NOT want!!!  But after being faced with starting at square one and possibly months and months of more paperwork - - - I'll take resubmitting!!

I probably won't be able to truly let my breath out that I seem to constantly be holding until they are in my arms and I am bringing them home.  BUT - - your prayers have been working and I have felt them and feel so blessed to be surrounded by so many that care so much about our family.  Adoptions are always full of stress and anxiety and things that can be discouraging - - Satan HATES seeing kids come into loving God fearing homes.  He will do all he can to steal, kill, and destroy our joy and hope and love!

Continue to pray friends - - pray these kiddos home!!  And then pray for them IN our home because those first few months are HARD!!  I appreciate you all more than you know.

Hugs and I Love You's

We got to spend last week getting to know our new kiddos!  It took a lot of man hours to prepare the crew here to be set up and taken care of for the week.  Thanks to grandmas and grandpas and family friends - the kids were all settled and scheduled for the week.  I got sub plans done - which is no easy feat - and were ready for a week away to spend time with my hubby and my new kids.  We had some flight delays but not too bad.  We got a good night sleep our first night in town and headed out to the kids' foster home the next morning to meet them.  We were anxious and nervous and weren't sure how it would go - - last time around when we met our new kids the first bonding was spent wading through language and cultural barriers.  There were lots of things to teach them and show them since everything was literally brand new.  This time felt different and we weren't real sure how they would respond to us.  They had only found out about us less than a week before so we weren't sure what they were expecting either.

We knocked on the door and were greeted by their foster mom - her and I have been emailing and calling for the last few weeks and we have already started a bond and friendship.  It was great to meet her and tell her thank you for loving on our kids for us.  As we walked into the house - R came running across the room and leaped into Josh's arms.  T hid behind the coffee table giggling a nervous giggle.  It took some coaxing but she finally came over and gave me a hug.  They showed us their rooms and the pictures we had sent (the kids had all written them notes to welcome them to the family).  There were a LOT of nervous giggles and activity.  After about ten minutes they were ready to head out.  We grabbed their bags and car-seats and we were off to bond and get to know each other - for the next four days.

I quickly realized that it had been a long time since we've had a toddler in the house - - I needed a MOM purse...to carry snacks and wipes and water bottles.  A quick stop at Target and we were all set.  T spent the first day just staring at us - nestling her head into us - and calling out "Mommy" or "Daddy" as she gave a hug.  She craved the chance to call us Mommy and Daddy and would say it over and over again.  R was definitely more reserved.  He had lots of questions and stories to tell and we were "Josh" and "Tausha" when he talked to us.  The first day went well and was full of nervous energy and building trust.  I got lots of hugs and even an "I love you" from each of the kids by mid-day - - that was definitely more than I expected.  They truly are ready to have a family and crave that place in someone's heart.  I spent the day hefting my mom purse on one shoulder and carrying "T" on my other hip (it's been a long time since I've carried a child around all the time...but when a cute little 4 year old that you are trying to bond and attach to says "Hold me mommy!" you hold her and cuddle her and whisper how much you love her in her ear - - no matter how much your arms and back start aching because you are out of shape and not used to it!).  Needless to say - we all went to bed exhausted (probably emotionally and physically).

Over the next couple of days we had meetings and outings.  We spent time learning about likes and dislikes.  We had a few sibling arguments and a couple of meltdowns - - we got yelled at and there were tears.  And honestly I'm thankful - - the meltdowns and the tears are healthy and show us that they trust us enough to be vulnerable and show some emotion.  It shows us that they feel like they can be real and test some boundaries and not just put up a front and pretend that everything is okay.  Because honestly - everything isn't okay.  Their ENTIRE world is changing and transitioning and is full of unknowns.

We had some meltdowns and tears on the home front too!  We phoned home a couple days in to have the kids "meet" on Facetime and check in with how everyone was doing.  By the end of the talk the three youngest were all in tears.  If you know us at all - we leave our kids often!  They are used to spending the weekend at grandmas - they never fall apart or miss us like this.  This trip was different though - it was full of emotion and change and unknowns.  Their ENTIRE world is changing too and they have to figure out where they fit in all of it.

By the end of our week - "T" was asking me over and over - - "I'm your baby girl?? - Yes, sweetie you are my baby girl...forever and ever. - And you're my mommy? - Yes, sweetie I'm your mommy...forever and ever!"

By the end of our week - we were no longer "Josh" and "Tausha" - R was naturally and out of habit calling us "Dad" and "Mom" - he was wearing Dad's hat all the time and even wanting to order the same food as Dad - he wants to be just like him and craves a Daddy hero to look up to.

By the end of the week I was catching a cold and we were over living out of a hotel.  It is exhausting eating out and entertaining kids at outings (movies, bowlings, museums) - we fit in 4 different meetings with social workers and even a meeting with the school.  We were sad to hug our kids goodbye but we were missing our kiddos here and the routine of everyday life in our home.  We helped them get ready for bed and tucked them in - we told them we loved them and that we would call soon and often until we can come get them.  Our time with them was precious and we are thankful for our few days.  We got to know their tender sides and the parts of their hearts that are wading through the grief and trauma that has been their life.  We got a glimpse of the months ahead - the good things and the hard things that we will be working through.

Our paperwork is submitted and our checklists are in the process of getting checked over - our case worker anticipated that we may have approval in approximately 4 weeks.  We are keeping our fingers crossed for mid-February but we'll see how everything goes.  In the mean time - we are going to keep in touch with the kids through phone calls and Facetime.  We are going to reassure them that we love them and that we are still here.  We are going to treasure our kids that our in our home and reassure them that we love them and help them wade through this transition.  I'm going to be busy getting my classroom ready to be gone for a few weeks when the kids come home.

Please pray for us - - please pray for our paperwork...for our kids here...for our kids there...for all the hearts involved that will be saying goodbyes and hellos...please pray for doctors and teachers and workers that are working to get the kids into a forever family...please pray that above all else we will continue to trust God to guide and direct and comfort our family through this process!

What's Next??

We have been overwhelmed by the support and encouragement from friends and family as they have joined us in celebrating our good news!  The kids got to share in the excitement as they went back to school this week - getting to tell their friends and teachers about our new additions.  Everyone seemingly has the same response - CONGRATULATIONS - NOW WHAT?!  What's next??  Well - we don't know a lot but I'll try and walk you through what we do know.

We DO know that we will be MEETING the kids in THIRTEEN days!!!!  Josh and I will be flying down and spending a few days loving on our new little ones.  The days will consist of some meetings - with therapists, case workers, school teachers, etc.  But that time is also going to be filled with TIME - time with our kids just soaking them in and beginning to form a bond with them.  We understand that this transition is going to be difficult for them, and we want to earn their trust at their pace and help and support them during this time best we can.

We DO know that our paperwork was submitted to their state office the week of Christmas.  It has to get through their office and then through the Idaho state office.  This paperwork will give us permission to bring the kids out of the state they are in, and allow them to be placed in Idaho.  We anticipated this stage taking a couple of months.  Well - we got an email last week that said it usually only takes about a MONTH!  We were surprised and felt like everything was going quickly!  We will continue to pray that everything goes through smoothly and that God's timing will be perfect!

We DO know that once we have our paperwork completed for our state approval, we cannot bring the kids home until our agency has ALL of the necessary documents they need.  Luckily, the kids' caseworkers have the list - several of the things are already in place, and they are working on gathering the rest of the items.  Our case worker said that there is often a piece or two of paperwork that isn't quite in place when state approval comes through, which ends up delaying bringing the kids home.  Please pray with us that ALL the documents that our agency requires will be gathered in the next couple weeks so that we can bring the kids home as soon as we get state approval.

We DO know that the kids DON'T know about us yet!  We found out we were their family two and a half weeks ago.  Unfortunately with the holidays the last couple of weeks, many of the offices have been closed and people were on vacation.  The kids were also out of town for a while celebrating Christmas with their foster family.  We are hopeful that they will find out in the next couple of days.  We know that they will need some time to find out about us (they will be using our photo book to get to know the kids and our family) and process the change that will be coming.  Please pray with us for their hearts as they find out that their whole world will be changing.  Please pray as the people in their lives will be working on preparing them to meet us in a couple of weeks.

We DO know a TON of information about the kids!  We have been blessed with some email communication with the foster family and they have been WONDERFUL about answering questions about the kids.  From everything to what size clothes are they in - to their favorite colors - to what kind of hair products do they use.  They have been great!  We even had a nice long phone call where little "T" walked in to ask her foster mom something and I got to hear her sweet voice.  I may be biased but she has the cutest little voice EVER!

We DON'T know for sure when we will get to bring the kids home.  We anticipate it being approx 4-6 weeks from now.  We also have dealt a LOT in adoption paperwork over the last several years and we know it often doesn't come early or on time - but usually LATER than anticipated!  We are hopeful to have the kids home around mid-February, but realize that it very well could be end of February or early March or mid-March.  Anyone who knows me as the planner-TypeA person that I am - you know that I don't do well with vague.  Unfortunately, when dealing with paperwork you deal in vague and you expect delays.  We know that it will happen in God's timing and pray for His guidance and peace until then.  We know that the transition will be hard for everyone involved so we are spending our time preparing for the difficult few months ahead.

We DO know that GOD loves us and orchestrated our family for this journey!  During the first adoption when people would ask me "Why Ethiopia?" my response was simple "Because that is where my kids are - if they were in a different country that's where we would go."  Ethiopia did not bring about what we expected - but it brought exactly what God expected and I am SO thankful for that!  This time we felt led to stay in the States and people once again asked why not Ethiopia or some other country.  In my heart it was an easy answer - this is where my kids are!  We have felt God already leading this matching to our kids and are excited to watch Him work it all out.

** Please continue to pray for our family - for our kids here and there who will be coming together soon!  Pray for our adopted children as all of this may bring up emotions of their own adoption.  Pray for our younger kids as they learn to not be the babies of the family anymore, and they have to learn to share the attention that comes with being the youngest.  Pray for us, as parents, that we would be mindful of all of our kids and their needs and have insight in how to spread our love and attention to each one of our kids exactly how they need it.  Pray for our family - that we would continue to trust God's plan and journey for our future.

Adding TWO to our FLOCK - Matched!!

Do you ever have those moments when God just shows up and orchestrates everything?  When we went through our first adoptions, God gave us little clues here and there that reassured us that we were on His path to finding our kids.  From the timing-to the names-to a kid in the background of a family picture that would some day be IN the family picture - God gave us little signs all along the way that just make me smile.  He cares about the little bits of the story that end up weaving an amazing masterpiece.  One of those times was when we saw Nahome's sweet face for the first time - you can read about it HERE.  There was something about him that stole my heart from the first glance - I knew he was special and meant for us.  As we went through the adoption and brought our boys home, there were moments looking back that were just like that.  Special little glimpses that showed us that God always knew.  I remember looking back on how it worked last time and wishing that I would have paid attention to God unfolding it as He worked - so I could see each little special glimpse as we went.  As we started this adoption, I anticipated God working in the same way.  It has been no secret, however, that this adoption has felt very different than last time.  It has been quiet and contemplative.  There has been more fear and feelings of the unknown.  No signs of assurance that we were on the right track - just God's gentle whispers to trust Him.

That is....until the first week of October!  I was scanning through adoption sites looking for kids to submit inquiries on.  This is something I did every few days.  As I opened up a site - that I hadn't been to for a while - a couple cute little faces popped up and my heart jumped a beat!  I read their profile, elbowed Josh and showed him their picture and gave a little gasp as I told him "Babe - these could be our kids!".  Now - you have to know!  We had submitted inquiries on over EIGHTY sibling groups over the last 5 months. There are lots of wonderful kids, but these are the ONLY kids that I had felt this way about.  Josh's response was "Well - maybe they are.  Last time you elbowed me when you saw a cute little face - God brought us Nahome!".  I remember thinking to myself - - wake up and pay attention!  You wanted to be aware and watch God unfold each step along the way - this is the start of their story!  Could it really be?  I didn't know, but I had hope in my heart for the first time during this adoption and I didn't want to miss a thing.

We submitted our homestudy and waited to hear - just like we did with all of our inquiries.  A couple of weeks went by and our case manager got word that they were looking into some In-state families but said to check back in about a month to get a status update.  "In-State Only" was something we were all too familiar with!  There were MANY inquiries that we were declined because they were wanting to keep the kids in state to be near other family, etc.  As we got news that they were looking in-state for these two, we chalked it up as another dead-end inquiry.  BUT - -  I couldn't shake them.  My mind wandered to them often - my heart hoped for them - and my thoughts were filled with prayers for them.  They said to give it a month...so we waited and went on with life as usual.

Well, three and a half weeks later we got an email that they had been given approval to look out of state and they wanted to have a phone conference with us! This is the first conference call we had been asked to be a part of and we were beyond elated that it was with the kids who had stirred our hearts. We were excited and hopeful that God would work it all out.  We had to wait through the weekend for our time with the team - our minds were reeling and we were antsy and anticipating how it would all work out.  We knew we would get to learn a little about these sweet kids that God laid on our heart and to try and show them a little glimpse into our family and our hearts - to wait and see if God opened or closed doors.  The call was amazing - we felt such peace about the kids and their needs.  We felt that we opened up and showed them who we are and were real with them and laid our hearts out for them to see.  We felt that we allowed God to speak through us. As the call ended we were even more certain these kids might become a part of our family!  We found out that we were 1 of 5 families in this phase of the process and that they would be taking a couple of weeks to finish up interviews and meet to make a decision about these kids that had become so special to us.

As we went through the Thanksgiving holiday, and the first few weeks of December with all the traditions of Christmas shopping and decorating - our hearts yearned to know if these were our kids and how next Christmas would look with them in it.  We begged and pleaded with God - hoping that His plan would match with what our hearts were aching for!  We trusted that God would open or close the door to these two - but we knew we would be devastated if it closed.  We continued to search adoption sites and submit inquiries - but honestly each inquiry I made felt hollow.  I didn't really want any of them to be mine - because my heart had already been taken.  My mind wandered and wondered through all the specifics - where would they sleep, go to daycare, how will we tell the kids, what will it be like when we first meet them?  My heart also worried about the heartache if it wasn't us - if God closed the door.  We just had to wait and trust and pray.

We were told after our phone conference that they would be making a decision THIS week!  Needless to say - I have had trouble sleeping and my heart raced each time my phone beeped!  We've anxiously awaited the time to know if this door is closing - - or if our hearts and arms get to open wide and bring them into our lives!  Well - - - this morning we got the call that our family was chosen!!  God worked it all out and He allowed a spark in our hearts that started a couple of months ago to grow into a yearning and a love for these sweet kids we haven't even met!  We are excited to announce that our not-so-little flock will be growing by TWO - - a little 6 1/2 yr old brother and a cute little 4 1/2 year old sister will be joining us in the next few months!

     

We don't know a lot of the specifics yet as we move forward - - we do know it will take a lot of paperwork and probably a couple of months to get them ready to come home from out of state.  We are hoping to go down and meet them and spend a couple days with them sometime next month.  A few weeks after that, we are hoping to take all the kids down to meet them and begin their time of bonding and having fun as siblings.

We don't know what the future holds and we know there will be tough times ahead as transitions happen and our family finds it's new dynamic.  But today - our hearts are full and we are at peace knowing that God loves us and has given us two more beautiful blessings.  And you know what - looking back now that part of this story is revealed...there ARE little bits!  There are little bits of this story that date back to last year - - some to over four years ago when we started our first adoption (just shortly after this daughter was born) - little bits that point to these kids being in our family and God orchestrating it all!

We aren't sure yet what the guidelines are on sharing information - 

but we are pretty sure we can't share their beautiful faces.  SO - this will have to do!

** Please continue to pray for us - - for our new kids as they find out that their life is going to be changing.  For the kids currently in our home as they prepare for the plans to come.  For us as we make travel plans and finalize paperwork.  That we would continue to trust in God's plan and His timing!

Merry Christmas from our flock to yours - - we know it will always be a Christmas to remember!

Steps of Faith

There are times that God asks you to do things and verifies each step along the way!  It feels like you are RIGHT where God wants you to be and it is crystal clear.  You may not see the why or the how but you know the what - God walks with you and guides you.  God grows us and stretches us by asking us to trust Him - to step out in faith.  There are other times that it is not as clear - and He still asks you to step out in faith.  As we send out inquiries and wonder all the what ifs as we look at little faces that could or might not become a part of our family - we have no way of knowing, all we can do is trust that God will close or open doors as He guides our kids home.

One thing that has surprised us is how quiet this adoption has been.  We send out inquiries here and there and hear back from inquiries every once in a while.  For the most part - it is much less communication between us and case workers than we thought it would be.  As we have gotten to look closer at kids' files, we have prayed for God's plan to be clear - to pull out of an inquiry knowing they wouldn't be a good fit for our family or to seek more information wondering if they could possibly be ours.  God has opened and closed doors as we knew He would.  He continues to guide our family and asks for us to take small steps of faith - making decisions not knowing what the outcome will be.  

We continue to look into faces and send out inquiries wondering if these will end up being our kids - with each sweet face a little piece of me feels like it goes with them wondering if they will one day call me mama.  With each new step I feel my heart getting wrapped up in theirs and know that my heart won't be able to come out unscathed.  Stepping out in faith - putting your heart out there - not knowing what will come of it - knowing you may get hurt in the process - moving forward knowing that it may not work out but if it does it will be full of blessings beyond belief!

This is where we find ourselves - - too committed and deep in the process to be anything but ALL IN!  Praying and hoping that God's plan looks like the plan playing in our hearts.  Trusting and hoping that God will continue to clearly open and close doors as He brings our family closer to home.  Faithfully continuing to step out in faith - - even when we can't see what is around the bend.

Please continue to pray for us along this process.  Pray for us to trust God's plan for our family and be bold and brave enough to follow it, even when it feels blurry and unknown.  Pray for our children that will be coming into our home (wherever they are) - that they would be safe and loved and that God would start preparing their hearts for the difficult transition that will come.  Please pray for our children in our home now - that they would be ready and prepared for all the change that will come to our home and for ease of transition to a new normal when the time comes.  Please pray for our health and finances - - honestly Satan does not like seeing orphans cared for or families uniting together in God's name and we have felt bombarded and tested and know it is because we are obediently following God's plan.  Please pray that we would continue to lean on God and step out in faith as He grows our family.